INDIA – The land of Goddesses. Indians worship the
goddesses with utmost devotion and go back home to their daughter, mother, wife
and friends forgetting that the one they worshiped resides within these women.
The amount of violence against women in India has
increased by many folds due to the greater exposure of women in every field of
life. Women were previously restricted to the four walls of the houses and
after globalization, they have stepped out, taken chances, and opportunities to
stand equally in all sectors at par with men. Women now are a day or night cab
drivers and they are also the CEO of top companies.
It’s good to see how the mind-set of the society has
changed and how it has welcomed women into all walks of life as leaders, as
co-workers, as partners. But the mindset has not changed to an extent that it
was supposed to.
This existing restricted mindset of the few is the cause
that restricts women to go out and work, making them as a tool for
domestication. It is the same mindset that treats males as superior to the female.
Today when women walk shoulder to shoulder with men, the
male-dominated society uses eve-teasing, sexual harassment, rape, domestic
violence, and marital rape as weapons against women. This is one of the prime
reason violence is increasing and women's safety is a concern in India.
Despite the changes in legislation and the efforts to
deliver a safe environment, the laws have not been able to make this country a
secure haven for women. Criminalizing stalking and acid attacks, and an extended
definition of rape, justice, and accountability for survivors have not been
delivered, especially for the most marginalized. The new law has not led to
faster or better justice. If anything, it has only helped to increase the
backlash against women who do the report.
Incidents of survivors being set on fire by a group of
men is a common affair. The law fails and will continue to fail the countless
women in India.
Beyond the justice system, solutions of safety for women
against violence drive the do-gooders into inventions of everything from safety
apps to rape whistles. All of which leads to the understanding that women should
avoid violence, stay safe, and alert. The best way at the moment to deal with
the safety of women is to equip themselves with self-protection. With all the
different techniques of self-protection like karate, pepper-sprays, and
equipment, etc available, it's not always possible to keep these handy or get
trained in-order to venture out freely. it’s much easier and an add on to the
protection to equip yourself with some app that can keep you always in touch
with your loved ones and keep you one tap away from sending Emergency alerts in
times of need. One such app I came across and I use is the Satark India app.
Satark India - Live Free is the most simple, smart, and easy way to call for help. All you need to do is to install the app on your
mobile and add the contact details of your loved ones or your close circle to
whom you would want to alert in times of need. Once done your personalized
security network is set for you. Now in times of need, all you have to do is
simply tap the emergency icon in the app and the one-touch alerts system will
send an alert to your selected contacts, alarming them that you are in need of help.
It has a GPS based tracking feature, where your loved one will get your exact
live location details to be able to reach you. As add on feature, Satark India
gives you the option to share your GPS location details to your loved ones all
the time. Not only women But even men and elders can use the same
to protect themselves and their near and dear ones.
While it may take some time for society to change
their mindset, we first need to understand the root cause of this problem. The
problem is in the simplistic understanding of what causes violence against
women. We cannot talk about justice in India without acknowledging the culture of
acceptance and normalization of violence.
Social norms - the unwritten rules of what behavior is
normal and acceptable, play a powerful role in fueling violence. These norms
dictate which survivors and indeed which perpetrators "deserved" it
or not.
Common patterns in the social norms that drive violence
against women and girls are generally linked to male entitlement, domination
and control over women's bodies. This includes male entitlement to sex, the use
of violence against women as a punishment for not delivering on their perceived
responsibilities, and so on.
Taking a feminist approach to challenging these social
norms and promoting positive norms around non-violence and gender equality is
the way to go ahead. However, unless these efforts are mainstreamed we will end
up with well-intentioned but gender-blind initiatives that reinforce existing
negative norms.
Shifting social norms is about creating totally new ones
and this can only happen if we all continuously challenge what is considered
"acceptable". This is not easy. Nor is it safe as not everyone has
the privilege of being visible in challenging norms about gender-based violence
as the backlash comes strong and hard on those women.
But many young feminists in India and beyond continue to
be brave and assertive, going outside and online, resisting, claiming space,
demanding action. We must continue to
make visible these struggles. We must continue to amplify the voices of those
who are challenging mainstream narratives of violence. We should continue to
shift norms and challenge violence in ways that create new conversations that
women's lives and bodies are their own, and they matter.




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